YOUR MISSION WON'T BE ANYTHING LIKE YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD BE
A former mission president's wife told me that no matter how I imagined my mission would be, it wouldn't be anything like that. I'm learning the wisdom and truthfulness of her words. The first few days of our mission that we spent in Vanuatu felt more like a tropical vacation. We did receive training and got a feel for that area of our mission. We also got acquainted with the senior couples in our mission (except for the couple in the Solomon Islands) and some of the younger missionaries. I think one of President Granger's goals was for us to feel a part of the larger mission and we do.
Here we are blessed with a local, live at home, fullltime missionary couple--the Gurrera's who have been helping us. I don't know what we would have done without them. We are trying to learn all that we can because they will be released the end of May. Now that we are in New Caledonia these are some of the things we have been doing. Elder Glade has been learning how to file gazillions of reports. He has set things up so that we can handle the finances of this part of the mission when the Gurrera's are released. He has set up bank accounts, gotten credit cards, gotten WiFi in the office. (This was a small miracle. No one in the past had been able to convince the people in charge of New Caledonia IT, who were in Tahiti, that we even needed it. When Elder Glade was giving it a shot he learned that the Tahitian IT brother was actually on the island. He was in the office within an hour of when the call was placed to see what was needed and why. He said that he would have to order a specific router that the church uses. Others cause problems with the church's system; this would take weeks to months. A couple of days later he had found a router on the island and was back to install it. There was still time before he returned to Tahiti to come back to the office a couple of times and work some bugs out. Voila! We had WiFi for the office elders and me!)
Our office--Magenta Bureau, Port Vila, Vanuatu Mission |
Elder Glade has gotten various repairs (broken windows) and improvements made to the office, participated with Elder Gurrera in a monthly inspection of the mission cars, and accompanied him on an apartment inspection. He has learned where to go to buy bus tickets for the missionaries and that he has to be there between 4 a.m. and 2 p.m. with a checkbook (which he couldn't use until that was set up). He is learning how to take care of various missionary needs from buying phones to helping set up a booth in a local market so they can talk to people and pass out information. He still hasn't figured out how to get copies of the Book of Mormon in French. They supposedly were ordered quite a while ago, should be here, and aren't. How can we operate without copies of the Book of Mormon to give people!?!
I have searched the internet for hours looking for apartments, given countless numbers to Sister Gurrera to phone, visited lots of apartments, and finally decided on one in a quiet area. We let the real estate agent know we wanted it. He then needed approval from the agency director. Each day we called; each time he said, "Tomorrow for sure." One week later he left a voice mail that it was ours. Now who knows how long it will take to actually sign a lease. We were supposed to meet with him yesterday. He tells us he will call, but never does. In New Caledonia people have a way of doing things; if you don't like it, they aren't at all concerned. They are very kind, not at all rude, but truly not concerned.
Sister Gurrera has taken me for hours to look for furniture. We were unable to find a furnished apartment. I'm learning vocabulary for features and qualities of everything from apartments to refrigerators. I'm trying to determine what brands are good quality when I'm not familiar with any of them. I'm learning how to use the French keyboard on the office computer. Learning where to buy what we need. Getting acquainted with grocery stores. Learning how to cook and eat where groceries are not the same and are very expensive. I'm learning to read store labels and cooking instructions in French. I'm learning how to apply for local visas, "Cartes de Sejours," which need to be gotten shortly after arriving and renewed a year later. I have brought a bougainvillea back to life and it is blooming already. President Granger asked me to plant a planter in front of the office and get pictures for the office. That will be enjoyable, but first things first.
It was a stick with a few wilted leaves. A little water and love. Look at it now! |
We have both gone to doctors visits with the missionaries and communicated with the mission nurse in Vanuatu about plans for their care. I have been helping missionaries with budgeting and grocery shopping. We have gone to the city for visas for ourselves and other missionaries. We are learning our way around the island. We are adapting to the fact that stores and businesses open early and close early. Some businesses I thought had gone out of business still are in operation. It's just that they are open so few and such random hours that they appear to no longer be in business. If we stay too late at the office we are out of luck if we thought we'd run an errand after. We are adjusting to very tight parking spaces and very different ways of doing business. We are trying to explain to local leaders why President Granger has made they changes he has made in some of the procedures in the mission. When we are not in the office--most of the time we can do with our time what we choose. Our mission is definitely different from a young person's mission.
We didn't expect a brand new Nissan. We didn't expect to stay in such a nice hotel for so long. When we have attended church, conference, and a couple of baptisms it seems more like what I expected a mission to be. We expected to face challenges, and we do. They aren't necessarily the type of challenges we expected. We expected to be glad we are missionaries and grateful to be involved in building the kingdom in this part of the vineyard. We are. The people here are as wonderful as we expected. The city of Noumea isn't as pretty as we expected, but the beauty of New Caledonia exceeds all expectations. By next month, when we are more settled, our mission will be a different one than it has been this month. We are beginning to understand that the statement, that our mission won't be what we expected, will continue to be true as we move forward.